Vast Chasm

Lost in the Vast Abysses of Space and Time.

Just when we think we’re done, we’ll figure out it’s not totally over. How do you exactly move on after a break-up? Moving on had never been easy than we thought. It’s not as easy like writing ABC. Not as easy as it sounds. You were cornered. Got stacked in a box and you have no place to go. Why do we actually ask for a break-up? Why do couples separate? Why do they have to say good bye if it will just cause them pain?

Letting go doesn’t mean you never cared. Sometimes, letting go is about giving each other a time and space to realize their mistakes and be a better partner. Some people try to make things work for a better relationship but it never worked. You should know when to let go, a time to admit it’s over. It has been sweet, novel in deed, to hang on and solve the problems together, but if you tried everything but it doesn’t, and never worked; what are you hanging for? Separation helps this time. Have an agreed period of time of your separation. You need a time and space to live and do things alone and figure out if your life would be better if you were apart. Surely it will remind you of him/her. You’ll miss each other, remember the things you do together, it will remind you of what you actually loved about her, and realize what you love about each other. You’ll miss everything and figure out you were happier when you were together even if your relationship is hitting the rocks and you thought it’s totally broken down beyond repair. But separation is not always like this. Most of the time, it just helps us realize that separation has been the wisest decision for the both of you.

Love hurts. But do you know when it’s time to pull the plug and the time to continue fighting for? Think